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[Rawze]

(04-06-2017 )doarmihai Wrote:  Hey Rawze, this is very inspiring and very well intended ....but you are your own person to...
I remeber when i messaged you and try to contact you....and I DID get in touch and talk over the phone for 2 minutes after that you told me "fu.k you" and you hang up leaving me with my problems on my own, even though I was a fan of your channel and perform my egr tuneup and listen to your advice way before I had any problems....

You are absolutely correct. I remember that conversation well. It is very rare for me not to get along with someone but when it happens, I will end the communication fast. I got frustrated with you to the point that I just had to tell you to f$ck-off so that you would not call me any more, no offense, but here is why...

You called, and asked a lot of things. EVERY SINGLE THING I REPLIED WITH, you were hell bent on doing nothing but arguing it away. - sorry, but I have better things to do and other people I could be helpful towards that are not like that. I felt like I was being trolled by someone who would rather use duct-tape to solve a problem, than to do something professional and legitimate. Maybe what you do works for you but I don't like it at all and do not get along with people like that.

There were 2 other people here during that conversation that I had just met for the first time and I was outside helping them with their truck. Even they said they didn't know why I tolerated the conversation as long as I did.


Again, no offense, but I would much rather piss someone off up front than to waste time with them arguing away everything I say. - I am known not to get along with everyone, and you seemed to be one of those I would not be able to tolerate for long so after the 8th or 10th thing you were so hell bent on disagreeing with me on, I told you to %fu$k off and hung up on you and put you on call block. I would rather someone know up front that I am not likely to get along with them than later. Remember, this is a hobby, not a job or a career. I would rather let them communicate through the forum instead. It is better than arguing with them and making for a lot of unnecessary friction that only serves to get nowhere. I really don't do drama well at all, it serves no purpose in my life.

Does this mean I dislike you? -- No, I take it in stride. Just means that I would rather not be on the phone with some people and would rather them dislike me a bit than to try to call all the time.

Someone I am not likely to get along with, I would rather stick to communicating on the forum with. That way there is less emotion and drama. If someone (including even myself) is hard headed, etc. then it becomes clear real fast. If discussions or questions are legitimate, then it gives time for everyone to reflect on it and join in on the conversation. This is what my tiny corner of the Internet is for. Everyone learns this way instead of not getting along or arguing. I fully understand that some people use disagreement as part of their means to learn things. I have no problem with this to some extent but when it becomes a constant in the conversation, I know it will lead to bad things and nothing but a barrage of negative emotions. NO one wins so it is best to end it sooner than later.

You have not been left out or excluded as it may have seemed on the phone. My phone rings a lot times every day and I don't even answer it if I am busy or don't feel like talking. Contrary to that, there are more than 1,000 people on this forum and your still here and free to ask those same questions etc. I have no problem with this but just keep in mind that this is not a place for petty drama, etc. Keep things professional, legitimate, and with good merit and I am sure you will have a place here among everyone else that thinks I am full of sH$_t too. - I certainly don't know everything and am very opinionated on how I do things so there will always be people who disagree with me because of it.